As an executive coach, I’m sometimes
called on when a leader, manager or company has too much going no – people,
projects, development, deadlines, decisions – and they’ve passed the tipping
point of working to full effectiveness. It’s not a weakness to have said ‘yes’
to so many things (or, more likely, for additional responsibilities to have
been given to you because there was no one else to take them on) but too much
complexity never delivers effective business results.
A call for your executive coach is a
call to streamline and to simplify.
Earlier this week I had a conversation
with a writer and film director. There were about 8 projects he could easily
invest time in – networking, event organising, putting together his next
creative team – there’s always so much going on. I asked him – why do you do
what you do? He said ‘I love to write. And I love to create.’ I asked him –
knowing that, what are your priorities today? He said ‘To finish this script.
To get the movie made.’ And even simpler than that? … ‘To finish this
script’.
Sometimes there’s a really obvious
right next move; often it’s one that only you can do. That’s why it’s on
your list and no-one else’s.Everything else you’re investing time in is a
distraction, or a subconscious procrastination because it knows that the
things only you can do will create the biggest ripple effects – and that in
turn will change your world.
There’s a classic story (which is worth
repeating …) about a professor who held up to his students an empty glass jar.
Into it he placed some large rocks up to the rim. He then help up the jar and
said ‘is it full?’. The students nodded ‘yes’. Next the professor took out a
bag of pebbles and poured them into the jar. The pebbles found their way in
around the spaces of the large rocks. ‘Is it full now?’ he asked. The students
nodded ‘yes’. The professor then took out a bag of sand. He poured the sand
into the jar and it filled in the spaces around the pebbles. He held up the
jar, ‘Is it full now?’. The students nodded ‘yes’. The professor took out a
beaker of water, he slowly poured it into the glass jar. The water meandered
its way around the spaces of the rocks, the pebbles and the sand until it
reached the rim of the jar. ‘Ok, so now it’s full’, said the professor, ‘So,
what’s the lesson’?
One student raised her hand and said
‘Is it that we can achieve more than we think – but sometimes have to find new
ways to do so?’. ‘A good answer, anyone else?’ said the professor. Another
student put up his hand, ‘Could it be that if we assume a question means ‘more
of the same’ we’re missing an opportunity?’. ‘Another good answer’ said the
professor, ‘And here’s the lesson I want you to take away from today: I could
only put as much into this glass jar if I started with the big stuff. In any
other order, this quantity of rocks, pebbles, sand and water could not be
contained. Prioritise the big things into your life – health, fitness, a
vision, connection – and all the rest will fall into place around it’.
As an executive coach, I couldn’t have
put it better myself!
“Simplicity is the ultimate
sophistication.” Leonardo da Vinci
About Author:
Jennifer Broadley is one of the UK's leading executive coaches.
She works with corporate leaders, business directors and successful
entrepreneurs. She specialises in CEO coaching, prosperity coaching and
providing the most cutting-edge and intuitive leadership and personal
success programs in the UK. Jennifer is passionate about the ongoing
self improvement of the world's future business leaders – the
way-showers for our precious next generation. She coaches, speaks,
writes and runs workshops on 'The 7 Steps to Personal & Professional
Freedom'®. You can buy her book of the same name from www.Amazon.co.uk You can call, email or message Jennifer from www.JenniferBroadley.com.
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